Schala wrote:Don't try to understand ALL women, because you'll fail. Each woman is different. Just try to understand the woman you're currently involved with or who you have your eye on.
Isn't that the truth. My girlfriend and I discussed this topic a while ago. My contention was that every woman is determined to be different, which makes it very difficult to have female friends. When a guy meets another guy, there are a few topics that are almost guaranteed to be common interests: sports, music, electronics, games, cars. It is rare to find a guy that does not have any interest in any of these. Guys can build friendships around just one common interest. Meanwhile, women are unique and special and don't want to compromise their specialness. This makes them more particular about building relationships with other women, to the point where if everything doesn't line up just right with their personalities, the relationship is going to implode. This causes fewer female-female friendships, but the ones that do last are much stronger.
Most of the women I've talked to have agreed that it's much easier being friends with men than with other women. Men just aren't as particular or demanding of their time as other women are. Plus, men tend to be a lot easier to understand, which makes dealing with them less mentally fatiguing. Men have fewer hidden agendas; the open agendas they have (e.g., sex) may be unsavory, but at least they're known and so easier to handle.
My advice: only date tomboys.