Sorry, I need to break this up a bit:
XLord007 wrote:The bottom line for me in this controversy is the following:
-Harassment of any kind is NEVER justified for any reason
XLord007 wrote:To Goldfish, just because death threats happen to public facing people does not make them ok. They are never ok, regardless of how famous a person may be. Saying "this is the world we live in" is a cop out. People get away with that sort of behavior because the silent majority allows them to. We're never going to be able to make all people act like decent human beings, but we can make it clear that we won't turn a blind eye to that sort of disgusting behavior. If we want the world we live in to be less disgusting, we have to do our part in making it less disgusting.
absuplendous wrote:Honestly, Goldfish, I was with you--in the broadest senses as outlined above. But as others have already pointed out, a lot of your specifics are symptomatic of the mindset you're trying to dismiss as being a "tiny, tiny percentage." For me personally, it was when you asserted that Sarkeesian "probably gets off" on death threats. That's not just a harmless "wild guess"--it's a baseless and tasteless accusation and just plain insensitive, to put it kindly. You don't know her well enough to make such a "guess"--it's not really something you should guess about in any case--and you've obviously never dealt with a death threat yourself. Still, that's not to say that you're categorically among the truly disgusting ranks of the hobby collective; instead, though, I think it illustrates that their influence can affect those who consider themselves "one of the good guys" more than they think/are aware of.
Guys, can you PLEASE get off your high horse about this? Go look back at post #19 from me:
"And just for the record: NO ONE ON EITHER SIDE IS CONDONING THE DEATH OR RAPE THREATS!"
This is common sense, this should not be the main takeaway from this issue on your end, it should be a given. I was getting a headache talking to Jay last night because he going on and on about this. YES, HARASSMENT IS WRONG! YES, DEATH THREATS ARE WRONG! NO, THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THEM BEING WOMEN! NO, THIS ISSUE DOES NOT EXIST BECAUSE OF THE HARASSMENT! In fact, I am not even interested in Zoe or Anita at this point because they are not what drew me into the issue. My issue is the (irony alert) harassment of the press on gamers and lumping EVERYONE in with tiny minority that are causing issues for people.
Now I know one of you are going to say, "But Goldfish, you said you condone it earlier...Go look at post #21 that you wrote". Here are my points:
-It happens. I'm not excusing it, I'm just saying it happens, especially when contacting someone online is as easy as it is. Especially to famous people from all walks of life, from politicians to sports figures. It's. Not. Just. Gamers.
-When it happens and you feel your life is in danger, you call the police and you DON'T post it on social media as both Zoe and Anita did. You file a police report and that report is then public.
-The sad thing is, some people use it for their own benefit and I feel that MAY be the case with these two individuals. People like this are usually manipulative sociopaths and get off on this sort of thing. They DO exist. I hope I'm wrong on this. If they are legit, I hope they arrest and convict whoever is doing it. If they produce a police report, I will happily eat my words. But as of now, I have my skepticism.
-That said, the whole doxxing thing IS dangerous because it remove anonymity. That needs to stop. (this term is new to me, so not sure how often they happen)
Sorry, just need to make that as clear as possible, so someone ELSE doesn't stumble into this thread and post like I'm condoning harassment in general.
XLord007 wrote:-Journalists have a responsibility to be open and honest with their audience and disclose any potential conflicts of interest
This is the main point of Gamergate and why I'm following it, but it's getting lumped in with the harassment bit, so it's losing the message a bit. This is what most of the supporters are focusing on ATM, Zoe and Anita are more or less afterthoughts.
XLord007 wrote:-All people have a right to their opinions whether we agree with them or not
-No one is above criticism, but criticism should never devolve into harassment
I combined these two because they are related. I agree with both, with two caveats: People can be criticized for their opinion (they should welcome it, in fact, which is why a lot of people cannot take Anita's critiques seriously) and people in positions of power, such as gaming websites need to use their opinions more judiciously than they have been.
XLord007 wrote:In gaming terms, that means making it clear that normal, well adjusted people that enjoy video games want nothing to do with GamerGate or whatever they are calling their sick harassment campaign. There's a very distinct difference between writing articles demanding that journalists be open and honest and harassing people. The two need to be separated. The idea that journalists need to be open and honest is a very good one, but no one will take the idea seriously if it's being driven by harassment instead of civil discussion.
Just need to clear this up, because you're incorrect here...Gamergate is NOT about harassing people, it is about cleaning up game journalism, holding it to higher standards and sniffing out underlying political agendas and it originated from the 10 or so articles that hit just prior to PAX, essentially sending a message that "gamers are dead and gamers are bad people". That sparked the fire and that's why some of us are good and pissed off right now.
More or less, this is my entire argument here: http://www.slate.com/articles/technolog … _they.html